Some people are inherently afraid to commit. This is a symptom, not the real problem. Unless the real problem and its root causes are addressed, people will continue to be afraid to commit.
Consider these reasons:
- A dynamic environment means change and adaption. As soon as a stand is taken, a goal is set, it seems to get obsolete. Therefore, the thought enters the mind, 'Why bother?'.
- A fear of 'closing one's options' and 'leaving money on the table'. The number of variables to be evaluated are typically infinite. In a desire to maximize gains, the analysis continues even when the returns on doing so is diminishing.
Consider these additional reasons:
- Fear of failure: Because you never described what you aiming for, you never really 'missed', right? If something 'failed' its 'not your fault'.
- Fear of success: This is a latent fear, hence most people are unaware it exists. Success will bring additional responsibilities, risk and higher stakes. Having 'More to lose' sometimes results in defensive behavior.
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